Five prerequisites for a successful couple relationships

 

five prerequisites for a successful couple relationshipsBefore we give ourselves physically, emotionally and spiritually to a certain being, we must be sure that it will be a successful experience. Better to be cautious in the beginning than to suffer later, physically or emotionally. Here are five aspects ...
Love and it’s experience in a harmonious and fulfilling love relationship - this is one of the most common aspirations. Yet we see around us how many times this beautiful and legitimate aspiration of the soul does not get to fulfill and many relationships fail.
This brings to the obvious question: "Why?" Many studies show that many couple relationships fail because in the start the two did not get in depth of the friendship relationship, did not give time to get to know each other and went too fast in an intimate relationship.
Before we give ourselves physically, emotionally and spiritually to a certain being, we must be sure that it will be a successful experience. Better to be cautious in the beginning than to suffer later, physically or emotionally. Here are five issues that should be checked.

 

1. Physical
In addition to the need to check the health (and in particular, the possibility of having STDs), this aspect of health involves to be in a good physical shape possible.
This form is maintained through proper exercise, a balanced diet and adopting healthy hygiene habits. In this way, we maintain the highest level of attractiveness. Unfortunately, this condition is respected especially at the beginning of the relationship.
Over time, the tendency of indifference appeares and we become less attentive to our appearance and the other. "I used to your face, etc." - Is the way things usually evolves. You should not expect your partner to be in great shape if you are not.

 

2. Emotional honesty
Be natural! People communicate through sincere feelings, not only in words. Sooner or later the truth comes out, so it is better to be open and tell upfront how things are.
If you are a man and you feel hurt, you should not be afraid to show it. If you are female and his behavior bothers you, tell him.
We should not be afraid to change our attitude, because only this way we can communicate our partner what we feel. Negative thoughts, fear generated by past painful experiences or hidden wounds always disturbes the free exchange of feelings.

 

3. Show your affection open
Do not be stingy with caresses. They are as important to awaken love as sex itself. Sometimes they are even more important. Men need of tenderness as much as women. Lack of manifestation of love is one of the main premises that generate disillusionment and renunciation.

 

4. Play and fun
Humor is the glue that avoid a relationship break even when there are significant differences between the partners. People enjoy the company of those who make them laugh.
When you amused together, the degree of intimacy increases and decreases anxiety. Humor is more than simple ability to laugh; it is an attitude and a commitment to life, in general. In a subtle manner, humor reaches deep values that you can share together.

 

5. Sexual attraction
Much of erotic magnetism is pure chemistry. Our vital fluids expand in the presence of certain persons.
Amorous meetings prove to be often prove simple "one night" adventures when are based only on physical attraction. True love is born only in the game of mind and emotions. Unfortunately, few people reach their potential.
More than men, women are used to engage in a new relationship the unpleasant problems related to sexual experiences in the past.
Self-knowledge involves  among other to examine our past and to discover the causes of our current behavior of self-defense. This knowledge should not be seen as something painful; it is better if we realize that a look back we can supply the necessary understanding to advance faster.
Self-knowledge reveals the causes that hinder our development to sexual maturity. If we understood this and we got the desire to surpass ourselves, we already made a big step forward.
There is not of course necessary to review all unresolved issues from childhood and adolescence. Is enough to become more aware of ourselves to make a giant step towards a higher level and to greater inner fulfillment.
This article is excerpted from the book "100 simple and safe methods to make us extremely happy sex life" written by Rachel Copelan and published by Deceneu Publisher.

source: www.edituradeceneu.ro

 

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